4 Spiritual Steps to Heal Self-Doubt and Reclaim Your Independence
- Psychic Christine Wallace

- Jul 25, 2025
- 3 min read
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If you're ready to let go of codependent tendencies and build unshakable confidence, try these soul-healing rituals and spiritual practices:
1. Create a Sacred Space to Reconnect With Your Power
Light a white or gold candle, sit quietly, and breathe deeply. Place your hand over your heart and repeat:
“I release the chains of doubt and fear. I call back all of my power. I am whole, I am free, and I am enough.”
This simple daily affirmation for confidence and spiritual alignment helps shift your inner energy from fear to faith.
2. Write Your Emotional Freedom Letter
Take out your journal and write a letter to the version of you who stayed small to keep others comfortable. Thank them for surviving, but let them know you’re now choosing to thrive.Declare your independence, your truth, and your commitment to loving yourself first.
This is a powerful tool in letting go of codependency and reclaiming personal power.
3. Do an Energetic Cord-Cutting Visualization
Close your eyes and imagine golden scissors gently cutting the energetic cords between you and any person, situation, or belief draining your power.

Repeat: “I sever all cords that no longer serve my highest good. I stand in my truth, free and protected.”
For added power, hold a piece of black tourmaline or obsidian, known for grounding and psychic protection.
4. Establish a Self-Love Ritual
Take yourself on a weekly "solo date" to do something you love—alone. This rewires your nervous system to feel safe and joyful in your own presence. Whether it’s a nature walk, a good book, or a new spiritual practice, this is how you strengthen emotional independence.
💎 Daily Affirmations to Build Confidence and Emotional Strength
Speak these aloud each morning to reprogram your subconscious mind:
“I trust myself to make powerful decisions.”
“I do not need outside validation—I am already enough.”
“I attract relationships that honor my truth.”
“My happiness begins within me.”
Use these as part of your morning spiritual routine to build confidence and self-trust.
🧘♀️ Crystals, Tools, and Energy Healing to Support Your Journey
Along with affirmations and journaling, consider using these spiritual tools to aid your transformation:
Black Tourmaline – For energy protection and grounding
Rose Quartz – To open your heart to self-love
Citrine – For confidence, clarity, and willpower
Frankincense oil or Palo Santo – For clearing doubt and fear
These tools amplify your intention and support your healing on an energetic level.
❤️ You Are Not Alone—You Are Loved and Guided
Every client I work with—whether struggling with love, blocked energy, or emotional pain—comes to realize the same thing: Your power is already within you. You simply need the right guidance to access it.
And that’s why I’m here.
I see you. I understand you. And I am here to help you rise into your most confident, independent, and spiritually aligned self.
If you're ready to take the next step, I invite you to:
✅ Download my FREE 5-Day Spiritual Energy Cleanse Guide✅ Book a Free 30-Minute Session with Me✅ Subscribe to My Podcast “Mystical Charms and Things”✅ Read More Blog Posts on Confidence and Healing
With love and light,Psychic Christine Wallace35+ Years as a Psychic Medium & Spiritual Healer📞 Call: 855-708-2768🌐 TrustedPsychicAdvisor.com
🕯️ Final Thought
You were never meant to live in someone else’s shadow. You are the light. You are the source. You are the healer you’ve been waiting for.
Let today be the day you stop doubting and start rising.
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