What causes trouble in love? A Psychic Advice for Troubled Relationships
Staying blissful in a romantic relationship is one of the most challenging aspects to maintain in your life. This is because within a relationship are two individuals who have different upbringing, values, and ways to express love.
Relationships go through stages, and the best part is the honeymoon phase where both couples are so in love and happy. But after a while, when there’s too much familiarity and confidence in the relationship, fights happen more often.
Sometimes, the love turns to hate and resentment. But why do these things happen? What causes trouble in love?
2 Ways to Enter a Relationship
People enter into relationships for several reasons. Knowing why you entered a relationship will help you understand whether your relationship will bring you peace or cause you trouble. Find out these two most common ways to enter a relationship and how they can affect the romance between you and your partner.
1. You’re seeking happiness through your partner.
If you enter into a relationship to seek happiness through your partner, then you’re in trouble. Extracting happiness from your partner means you are placing the key in his/her hands to make your life blissful. This is a very skewed notion about a relationship because this means that you already have a preconceived idea of how he/she should be as a partner. You’re setting up expectations from your partner that may be unrealistic.
Your expectations for a perfect partner may range from their looks, social influence, financial stability, or the time and affection offered to you, etc. But these expectations will never make you happy because unless they have x,y,z, then they’ll never be good enough. This will then lead to disappointment that generates nasty emotions and even resentment towards your partner.
According to Sadhguru, a famous Indian yogi, love is supposed to be nurturing, not opinionated. Once you form an opinion about your partner, the relationship becomes nasty.
2. You want to share yourself with your partner.
If you are a self-starter, which means not needing anyone to make you feel whole or happy, then all your relationships will be blissful. This is why before entering a relationship, it’s very important to assess yourself if you have completely healed from anything that might have hurt you in the past.
One way to become a self-starter is to practice self-love everyday. If you don’t love yourself first, others can’t love you. If you can’t be happy on your own, you will just extract happiness from others. If you’re a joyful person, living in the moment, and loving your partner exactly for who he/she is, then your relationship will be as sweet as honey.
You must feel the sweetness of love in your heart without needing to be stimulated by another person. If you can’t be a self-starter and are always dependent upon the actions of your partner, then you’ll only be frustrated.
Soulmate vs Twin Flame: Understanding the difference and how to recognize them
Your soulmate is someone that you have a connection with in your past life. They can be a family member, a friend, or a significant other whom you’re with at one point. Because of a certain experience that you’ve shared in the past, you’ve been brought together once again.
For this reason, when you meet, there’s an instant connection that is unexplainable. Ever met a stranger, but after just one conversation you feel like you’ve known them all your life? This is what a soulmate feels like. So, you may ask “How to know if I am with my soulmate?” If you know someone whom you feel very connected to in an instant, it’s possible that person is your soulmate.
A twin flame, on the other hand, involves two divine entities: a masculine and a feminine divine energy who were once one unit. However, they were divided into two to go into this lifetime. If you meet your twin flame, you will see a lot of commonalities. Hence, the attraction towards each other will be immediate and inevitable.
However, since twin flames mirror each other so much because they were once one unit, they tend to argue and fight a lot. It’s like two fires clashing against each other, but can’t stay away from each other. This is why a lot of twin flame relationships are very toxic.
For twin flames to work, the two parties need to practice self-love and should feel whole by themselves. They should separate themselves as one unit and emerge as two different people who are whole individually and are aligned with their awakening. Twin flames who can achieve this usually become the strongest couple in the world — a power couple, as others would refer to.
How to fix a troubled relationship?
Despite the emergence of Science, there are still many things about this world that you can’t understand. Love for example, and its complexities, may still be very challenging for some people to deal with. But the truth of the matter is that love is not complicated, people are.
Due to your lack of understanding about the essence of love, you find yourself having trouble in love. This is why it’s important to seek proper guidance from a psychic to help you understand yourself and your partner better.
In a relationship, both individuals have different dynamics. Without proper understanding of these dynamics and other factors that affect the relationship, you’ll always be troubled and unhappy.
How a psychic can help you with your relationship
1. Helps you reunite or fix your relationship with your partner
2. Helps you have a better understanding of your partner
3. Give you advice on how to keep your relationship strong
4. Helps you get rid of bad energy, bad karma, and bad influences
5. Perform tarot card readings that will help you determine your next best move
Psychic Christine Wallace is an expert in helping couples fix their relationship or get back together after a break up. Her years of professional experience doing psychic reading, will help you achieve bliss in your love life. For more information, visit http://psychicreadingstoday.com.